Splitting up : enmeshment and estrangement in the process of divorce

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Splitting up : enmeshment and estrangement in the process of divorce

Alvin Pam, Judith Pearson ; foreword by James F. Masterson

Guilford Press, c1998

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Includes bibliographical references (p. 417-437) and index

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This thoroughly researched volume examines the emotional process of divorce, from the characterological struggle that leads to the breakup through the difficult adjustments that come after the marriage is over. Illustrated throughout with evocative case examples, the book explores why marriages fail, the feelings and reactions of both the rejecting and rejected partners, the psychodynamics of jealousy, the possibility of reconciliation, and the impact of divorce on children. Psychological and cultural perspectives are combined to provide valuable conceptual and clinical insights for professionals working with individuals and families in crisis.

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Preface Prologue: The Argument of the Book I. The Couple in Separation Introduction 1. Why Can't They Be Civilized? 2. Dynamics of the Couple-System 3. The Countersymbiant Partner 4. The Symbiant Mate 5. Leaving II. Jealousy Introduction 6. Infidelity vs. Jealousy: Social History of a Dialectic 7. Geometry of the Eternal Triangle 8. The Defilement Taboo: Jealousy's Legacy III. Catastrophic and Other Severe Reactions to Rejection in Love Introduction 9. Suicide: In the Shadow of the Object 10. Crimes of Passion 11. Psychosomatic Reactions to Rejection in Love 12. Sexual Dysfunction after Breakup IV. The Nuclear Family in Fission: Effects on Children Introduction 13. Children of Divorce in the New American Families 14. How Feasible is ""Cooperation where Children Are Concerned""? 15. The Fairy-Tale Divorce for Children V. Resolution of the Breakup: Letting Go vs. Reconciling Introduction 16. Love's Labor Lost: Letting Go 17. Reconciliation VI. Psychological and Social Adjustment Introduction 18. The Psychotherapy of Marital Breakups 19. The Issue of Guilt

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