Treating marital stress : support-based approaches

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Treating marital stress : support-based approaches

Robert P. Rugel

(Haworth marriage and the family)

Haworth Clinical Practice Press, c2003

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Includes bibliographical references (p. 157-160) and index

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Description

Help your marital therapy clients become more supportive of their partners! As a therapist, you see many unhappy couples who long for the loving support that used to be the touchstone of their relationship. Treating Marital Stress: Support-Based Approaches helps you restore that support, beginning with detailed descriptions of the five major patterns of marital distress and continuing with a comprehensive training manual that includes figures, case studies, and samples of possible dialogues between clients and therapists. Step-by-step discussion of the first five sessions with a hypothetical couple provide you with the tools you'll need to help your clients learn to work together as a team, manage their anger, and communicate effectively with each other. Treating Marital Stress shows you the best ways to: work with a reluctant spouse use empathic probing to make a connection with each client design homework assignments so spouses can work on individual improvements point out problematic behaviors within sessions through 'here and now' interventions reframe conflicts to reduce defensiveness help clients accept responsibility for themselves and avoid placing blame Other chapters discuss how you can assign behavioral tasks, get the couple to focus on their objectives, and predict and move beyond emotional obstacles to healing. This helpful volume also explores the outcome data from a study on support-focused marital theory conducted in a university setting. Author Robert Rugel, PhD writes: A spouse who is on the receiving end of support will feel loved and valued by the partner. That spouse will also know that the partner can be counted on to be there when help is needed. As a result, security and trust develop in the relationship. You can be there to help spouses look at each other differently and learn to trust and support each other once more.

Table of Contents

Contents Acknowledgments The Importance of Support Chapter 1. The Role of Support in Marriage The Overwhelmed Spouse of Contemporary Marriage The Literature on Social Support The Five Patterns of Marital Distress Specific Support-Focused Marital Therapy Interventions The Treatment Manual Chapter 2. Session One: Using Empathy and Probes to Understand the Perspective of Each Partner The Therapist's Goals What Are Your Concerns? Working Empathically with One Spouse and Then the Other What Do You Want to Achieve? Establishing a Preliminary Therapeutic Alliance with Regard to Goals Describing How You Will Work Together: Establishing the Therapeutic Alliance with Regard to Tasks Closing the First Session by Handling Administrative Matters Chapter 3. Session Two: Processing Interactions and Presenting Patterns The Therapist's Goals Processing Conflicts and Interactions Processing Mary and Pete's Conflict Presenting Mary and Pete's Pattern The Therapist As Relationship Instructor Preparing the Couple for Individual Sessions Chapter 4. Sessions Three, Four, and Five: Deepening the Therapist's Understanding Through Individual Sessions and Reorientation The Therapist's Goals Increasing the Emotional Connection Obtaining the Marital History Obtaining the Developmental History Session Five: Reorienting the Couple After the Individual Sessions Chapter 5. Working to Increase Support in Subsequent Sessions Assigning Tasks and Helping Spouses Get What They Want Understanding and Reframing the Inner Emotional Obstacles to Carrying Out Assignments Reframing the Obstacles to Providing Support Following Up on Previous Homework Assignments Identifying the Dismissive Attitude Pattern Identifying the Unilateral Attempt to Prevail Pattern: Winning the Battle but Losing the War Using Support Lists to Structure the Therapy Around the Issue of Support Keeping the Support Issue on the Table and Monitoring Progress Chapter 6. Dealing with Triangulation Patterns in Subsequent Sessions The Parenting Triangle Working As a Team and Problem Solving The Work or Hobby Triangle Chapter 7. Dealing with Anger Management, Derogation, and Negative Escalation in Subsequent Sessions Calming the Angry System: The Therapist As Gatekeeper Teaching the Couple to Avoid Negative Escalation Framing the Issue As Anger Management Framing Inappropriate Anger Management As a Function of Marital Deterioration Dealing with the Emotional Obstacles to Anger Management and the Inhibition of Criticism Chapter 8. Dealing with Communication Avoidance in Subsequent Sessions What Is Direct Communication? Indirect Communication and Conflict Avoidance Describing the Communication Avoidance Pattern Dealing with Obstacles to Direct Communication Chapter 9. Encouraging Companionship, Affection, and Sexual Intimacy in Subsequent Sessions Using the Here and Now to Enact Affectionate Behavior Encouraging Companionship Encouraging Nonsexual Touching and Sexual Intimacy Chapter 10. Accepting Partner Differences and Limitations Differences As an Irritant Learning to Accept Differences and Limitations Accepting Gender Differences A Case History Chapter 11. The Marriage of Sam and Diane Introduction Sessions One Through Eighteen Subsequent Sessions The Outcome Research Chapter 12. Assessing the Effectiveness of Support-Focused Marital Therapy Study One: The Support-Focused Marital Therapy Waitlist-Control Comparison Study Two: Correlations Among Support, Anger, Marital Satisfaction, and Change in Marital Satisfaction Afterword References Index

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  • NCID
    BA71414914
  • ISBN
    • 078901632X
  • LCCN
    2002068777
  • Country Code
    us
  • Title Language Code
    eng
  • Text Language Code
    eng
  • Place of Publication
    New York
  • Pages/Volumes
    xi, 165 p.
  • Size
    22 cm
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