Unbecoming mothers : the social production of maternal absence

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    • Gustafson, Diana L.

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Unbecoming mothers : the social production of maternal absence

Diana L. Gustafson, editor

(Haworth marriage and family therapy / Terry S. Trepper, senior editor)

Haworth Clinical Practice, c2005

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Includes bibliographical references and index

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Learn the who, what, and why of unbecoming a mother In a society where becoming a mother is naturalized, unbecoming a motherthe process of coming to live apart from biological childrenis regarded as unnatural, improper, or even contemptible. Few mothers are more stigmatized than those who are perceived as having given up, surrendered, or abandoned their birth children. Unbecoming Mothers: The Social Production of Maternal Absence examines this phenomenon within the social and historical context of parenting in Canada, Australia, Britain, and the United States, with critical observations from social workers, policymakers, and historians. This unique book offers insights from the perspectives of children on the outside looking in and the lived experiences of women on the inside looking out. Unbecoming Mothers: The Social Production of Maternal Absence explores how gender, race, class, and other social agents affect the ways women negotiate their lives apart from their children and how they attempt to recreate their identities and family structures. An interdisciplinary, international collection of academics, community workers, and mothers draws upon sources as diverse as archival records, a therapist's interview, a dance script, and the class presentation of a student to offer refreshing insights on maternal absence that are innovative, accessible, and inspiring. Unbecoming Mothers examines five assumptions about maternal absence and the families that emerge from that absence: the focus on parenting as highly gendered caring work done by women the idea that women share the same experience of unbecoming mothers and share the same circumstances and background the perception of maternal absence as a recent phenomenon the notion that women who want to manage their mother-work will make choices to overcome life's obstacles the Western concept of womanhood being achieved through motherhood and the unrealistic ideal of the good mother Unbecoming Mothers: The Social Production of Maternal Absence is a rich, multidisciplinary resource for academics working in women's studies, psychology, sociology, history, and any health-related fields, and for policymakers, social workers, and other community workers.

Table of Contents

About the Editor Contributors Foreword (Sharon Abbey) Acknowledgments Chapter 1. Framing the Discussion (Diana L. Gustafson) PART I: PERSPECTIVES FROM THE INSIDE LOOKING OUT Chapter 2. The Social Construction of Maternal Absence (Diana L. Gustafson) The Good Mother/Bad Mother Binary The Binary of Becoming/Unbecoming Mothers Defensive Acts of Resistance Concluding Thoughts Chapter 3. Abject Mothers: Women Separated from Their Babies Lost to Adoption (Patricia D. Farrar) Adoption and Relinquishment Reading Kristeva Adoption As Abjection: The Unnameable, the Unspeakable Reflecting on Abjection Chapter 4. Clarifying Choice: Identity, Trauma, and Motherhood (Linda L. Anderson) Clarifying Choice: Cynthia's Story Reflections on Identity, Motherhood, and Trauma Chapter 5. Sandy's Story: Re-Storying the Self (Lekkie Hopkins) Sandy's Seminar Presentation Finding a Voice: Giving Life to Her Story, and a Story to Her Life Reflections on the Re-Storying Process Gentle Even With Garbage (Si Transken) PART II: PERSPECTIVES FROM THE OUTSIDE LOOKING IN Chapter 6. Forsaking Their Children: Distance, Community, and Unbecoming Quaker Mothers, 1650-1700 (Susanna Calkins) Early Modern Motherhood The Paradox of Quaker Motherhood The Paradox Resolved: Quaker Woman As Communal Mother Conclusion Chapter 7. Unnatural Mothers: Lone Mothers and the Practice of Child Rescue, 1901-1930 (Robert Adamoski) Chapter 8. Missing Mothers in a Mother-Centered World: Adolescent Girls Growing Up in Kinship Care (Deborah Connolly Youngblood) Missing Mothers The Adolescent Code of Silence Mothers Who Are Missed Naturalizing Social Policy Conclusion Chapter 9. Looking Promising: Contradictions and Challenges for Young Mothers in Care (Marilyn Callahan, Deborah Rutman, Susan Strega, and Lena Dominelli) The Research Methodology The Findings: Looking Promising Looking Promising: What Young Women Thought Looking Promising: What Social Workers Thought Looking Promising: A Beginning Theory Maintaining the Cycle: Policy Observations Contradictions and Obstacles in Breaking the Cycle PART III: COMBINING SITUATED KNOWLEDGES OF MATERNAL ABSENCE Chapter 10. Leaving to Grow / Inspiration to Grow / Leaving Inspiration (Gill Wright Miller) Prologue Leaving Inspiration: The Act of Being Contained by the Expectations of Mothering Inspiration to Grow: The Act of Using Dance-Making As a Tool for Sharing Leaving to Grow: The Act of Differentiating Mothering from Being a Mother Epilogue Chapter 11. Perspectives of Substance-Using Women and Human Service Practitioners: Reflections from the Margins (Deborah Rutman, Barbara Field, Suzanne Jackson, Audrey Lunquist, and Marilyn Callahan) Substance Abuse, Pregnancy, and Mothering Research Process Findings Discussion: Directions from Women and Human Service Practitioners Index Reference Notes Included

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  • NCID
    BA74853422
  • ISBN
    • 0789024527
    • 0789024535
  • LCCN
    2004016529
  • Country Code
    us
  • Title Language Code
    eng
  • Text Language Code
    eng
  • Place of Publication
    Binghamton, N.Y.
  • Pages/Volumes
    xix, 256 p.
  • Size
    23 cm
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